I am not a girl not yet a woman!
And I am in love with the concept of love!
I was talking to a friend a few days back about love. J is completely sure that love, as society teaches us, doesn't exist! During his prolonged exposition of his argument I kept quite. He strongly believes that love is a simple trick of the mind! An idealism that doesn't exists and cannot be achieved!
I always loved love since i was a little girl and his ideas at the start repulsed me.
I was studying for my sociology exam and something I read hit me... Marxism believes that the family had a major role in the capitalist society as it gave children a false idealism about working and love so to keep the economical structure intact! What I found even more disturbing is the idea of Marxists to keep women in the house and promoted patriarchalism as a mean to control women sexuality!!!
Is this what in theory love is all about?
I am not saying that I know what love is, but I like to think that I felt it at least once! But now thinking about it I ask myself if J is right!!
Did I mistake love for my unconscious need of being love in a non-familiar way? Was it my nervous system deciding to have some kind of electrical connection with another body?? Or was I blinded by a simple animalistic need??
Love is something very complex to be understood in an wholistic way! And maybe to avoid disappointments and mutations in my holistic idea of love I should completely try to avoid it until I am a women!
Xoxo
OnlyChick
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